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Forever...LOVE LOVE LOVE

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"According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, considering them to spend their lives in search of their other halves. Have you found yours?"

Did you understood the quote up there? I just so happen to read that from a website (Well, my source of quotes...credits to that site) that really touched me. I know the words are too simple and all and it is sort of 'geeky' but this quote really touched me.

considering, that my past posts are about school, summer,hobbies and etc...let me change the topic im going to tackle right now...lets call it...LOVE.

im kind of sad right now..i dont know, since this morning...im so gloomy.
Maybe because me and my bf got to a fight this day..and we we're about to break up..

you know the feeling that you wanna give up? the feeling that you want to break free from all the stress and tears? the thought of maybe..we were better off as friends, since if we were friends we wont fight like this?

but then..i thought..how about the moments we shared? the laughter? the love?

i know these seemed dramatic or what...but i gave my self time to think..

I was hurt before...different stories, different break ups, different boys...but same pain.

Reminiscing, i looked at my friendster and saw our pics. We got out this tuesday, we went to Enchanted Kingdom. And we we're so happy and all that day...Look:




more pics: here


Then there, i realized...that it wasnt supposed to end here, right now. We we're still happy at each other's arms so why let go now? Many lovers out there are loving each other but wasnt allowed to..while us, that are allowed to love all we want, will just end it for just a silly fight?

"Some things are hard to replace when they are gone. But fortunately, some things don’t need to be replaced."


Yesh, this is correct...some thing is hard to replace but there are somethings that dont need to be replaced. And i'd say he is the one that doesnt need to be replaced. Well, maybe...its too early to say these things since im not sure if he really is "my half"...but i just hope that we would last long..maybe not forever...but long enough for us to hard to forget each other FOREVER..

I have to face the reality that we wont last forever..
so maybe..we wont be a couple forever...but maybe our moments and time together should be treasured FOREVER..

lawls..i even thought that maybe we should be nothing at all..because NOTHING lasts forever..haha! well..its so cheesy...

back to the topic...why the hell am i being so dramatic and everything here?
infact i was inspired..because of a very good friend of mine..TRICIA. I heard about her break-up story and i remembered the days i was experiencing that feeling...(read her post if you like)

hearing about her story, made me regret that i actually thought of breaking up with my bf..
that i actually thought of giving up.....while sis tricia actually hold on..and let go only when 'he' wanted to. Im ashamed of what i just did...in that act, its like im a coward or what...wanting to break free from that stress i felt with my bf.

I thought about it, and i realized that what ate tricia did was an example of courage. At first you'll think 'why the hell did she allow her bf to break up with him' but then..when u stop and think...

you'll understand..that she did it for his guy's sake..and i think she was brave..because even if she knew she'll be hurt..she still let him go even if inside, her heart is torn apart. Oh yes, i dont know the real story of her story... but.... i do know what she felt..


like what i said...different stories, different break up, and different boys...but the same pain.

So right now..i will remember this line..

"Always try to save your relationship especially if it's worth it.let go ONLY if he wants you to..."
A quote from ate trisha...she said it to me when i was thinking of breakin up with my bf...
And yes....the relationship im onto now is really worth it..and im going to always remember what ate trisha told me..

and here i dedicate this quote to my dear friend that is in the process of 'healing'..

"When is it good to be a quitter? Sometimes, the best way to move ahead in life is to admit that you have had enough. That sometimes, giving up something can bring a sense of relief and ease, just like stepping out of an old pair of pants that no longer fits."


I think its funny at the same time really full of lesson. This quote will actually give you a lesson and at the same time woul probably make you smile..ü



Bottomline: Love would probably give you pain and will sometimes make you suffer. But dont forget that in love you learned to smile, to laugh, to treasure and cry....and of course, it thought you to still live even if dying already crossed you're mind. It thought you how to wait...and thought you to love someone truly even if you know there's an end....


it thought you to love continuously keeping aside the fact that there's no such thing as FOREVER.


...dont worry...in every loss..there's a gain..it may not exactly be the same as the first one..
but maybe...entirely different and a lot better this time..


so what can u say guys? share ur experiences as well....thats all.!! toodles!





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10 Lovely Comments:


Anonymous tricia said that...

hi kym. thanks for this.

anyway.. misunderstandings are inevitable. and both of you rant so much about those things. sometimes you will go on opposite directions on some of your decisions. BUT NEVER PREFER TO STICK ON YOUR EGO. instead, GIVE WAY. UNDERSTAND. and try to FIX THINGS UP. dont let a day end without you guys being okay. love each other more each day. TRUST is also very important. erase jealousy, insensitivity & pride. those will just make the relationship unhealthy. i hope you can and your boy will have more months together. i wish you both all the happiness and love in the world. :)

thank sis for being there for me. i love you kym!

April 16, 2009 at 11:26 PM  

Anonymous safiena said that...

Hi sis.. i know how you feel right now and i believe it is really a hard time for you.. I agreed with sis Tricia has said to you. Just be strong and the most important thing in relationship is TRUST EACH OTHER and put aside all the suspicious thingies! I know you are a smart girl. Take care and cheer up while we are still breathing. Talk to your best friends cos they are always there for you.

April 17, 2009 at 1:26 AM  

Blogger Unknown said that...

Hi Kym,

I've been in my current relationship for a year and three months now and I've learned vital things along the way.

During misunderstandings, it's important to speak only when both of you are already calmed down, with rational mind thinking clearly. My bf and I try not to talk when we are mad because it will only worsen a fight - remember that people tend to be emotional and irrational when they are angry; and throwing foul words at each other is not healthy as it will linger even after you've patched things up.

We made a deal that whenever one of us is upset, the other should try to provide comfort rather than sway onto the bad mood.

Communication, understanding, trust, and most of all, love : These are what will fuel the engine of a good relationship.

April 17, 2009 at 3:09 AM  

Anonymous Charmoii said that...

You look really sweet together sis. Hope your relationship will keep stronger as time goes by. I wish you both perfect happiness and endless love towards each other. :)

April 17, 2009 at 10:11 PM  

Blogger Joebs said that...

Aw, kym! What did you guys fight over? How're you two right now?
I have no past experiences with relationships so I can't give any good advice about it.. but I agree with what ate trish said. :D
after all if you guys really loev each other you'd always try to fix things between you right? sometimes it's just a test for both of you, to see who really cares enough to save the relationship.. don't you agree? ^_^ elias from t2 said that too (LOL)..
anyway i hope everything's gunna be great again soon. you dun want all those good memories to go to waste :)

April 18, 2009 at 10:26 AM  

Anonymous Isha said that...

It's really hard wheni you've been into a relationship. It is not just being safe and warm at each other's arms, cheesy moments, sweet laughters and the like. Somehow, it's a matter of preparing ourselves with our future partners. We cannot avoid having some arguments with them whether it's silly or not. We know very well the basic fundamentals of having a relationship. Follow what your heart desires and for sure your boyfriend will understand you no matter what. Goodluck! :)

April 18, 2009 at 2:37 PM  

Anonymous Scarlette said that...

I've read this entry of yours yesterday after school, sis, but I had no time to comment. Anyway, it moved me to tears. Love is really a mix of sorrow and sweet feelings, the balance alternates between the one and the other of those sides :( I'm glad you two didn't split up, and making peace is always the best option sis. If a relationship can be saved, it's just the best. Only when things just don't go right, and when none of the two in the couple feels happy together anymore, than that's the time to put an end to it. I hope you and your bf will stay together for many years to come, and so I hope it will be the same with my Thunder. We're still so young :) *hugs tightly* Sis, be strong always! xoxo,

Scarlette♥

April 18, 2009 at 7:57 PM  

Anonymous Kat :) said that...

aaaw.
hey sis!
cheer up! .
I know you're having a hard time now. But you can do it.
TRUST IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO WORK. err just set aside the "feelings" you're feeling and just adore the moment ;)
i know you both will be strong for this.
Just keep holding on if you truly madly deeply love him ;)
gogogo!

April 25, 2009 at 10:43 PM  

Blogger shirley07 said that...

you look so happy wit your bf..hope that you and your bf will not take each other..take care of your relationship!

April 26, 2009 at 7:33 PM  

Anonymous REN said that...

nice quote there sis- i got hit. lmfao. and about yer bf- relationships are not normal without fights && "tampuhan". the only key is trust- just take it easy and we all know that things will be normal again! you can do it sis! whoa. you're still young, more surprises awaits you.. mwa*

May 3, 2009 at 5:11 PM  

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